So, I'm back.
After a very long hiatus from this blog something interesting struck me and...well...here we are.
Its been over a year since my last post and in that time I've: turned 31 (hey, I don't have any shame about it), have had some challenging personal trials, mingled in love and loss, faced creative successes, a few failures, and just dealt with the shit that life throws at you. Of course, being raised with too much tact, I've kept a lot of what I've dealt with to myself and a few close friends. I'm not the type to air his dirty laundry, particularly in this realm of social media where it seems trendy to tell the world your business.
Instead, whenever I do post I usually try to share uplifting/inspirational messages. Finding quotes, stories, anecdotes, has become so second nature to me I can do it in my sleep. I truly believe if you're going to put something out in the world it better damn well be for the greater good. Now, some have described them as "cries for help" or self-righteous. I won't deny that what I choose to share, though not completely candid, usually is something that helps me cope, deal, move forward instead of staying stuck. I want to grow and if a saying or quote motivates, or inspires...why not use it? And if it helps me who's to say it wont help someone else?
Case in point:
Recently I have become an fan of Rumi. Since my (late) discovery of his wisdom I have been using him as a source of inspiration. Just yesterday I posted the following:
"And still, after all this time, the Sun has never said to the Earth,
"You owe me"
Look what happens with love like that.
It lights up the sky."
- Rumi
Now why I posted that is my business and though I wont divulge the "Why"" it was something I felt I needed to read, meditate over, and share. Yes, its geared towards me, my struggles, and life. And yes, that is a bit selfish. Yet sometimes sharing exactly where you are touches others.
Case in point:
That one quote, and apparently others I have posted previously, caused someone I haven't heard from in over a decade to reach out and say,
"You are an inspiration Sam. Please Keep doing what you do. You mean a lot to so many people...Time spent with you is time spent with a beautiful Spirit. I wish we had been better friends in school.
I was floored, dumbfounded. Something I said moved someone removed from my world to reach out. The compliments were sweet and I take them to heart, but the thing that interests me the most is that we connected. My struggles reflected something in him and we met in the same space unintentionally.
The simple point Im trying to make is this: What you may put out in the world may feel unnoticed or small to you, but you never know what impact you might make on someone else. Be mindful, dare to be vulnerable, strive to be conscious. You may just be the help someone needs...by just being you.
Love,
Sam xo